The Crisis of Modern Relationships

60%

of women

40%

of men

have experienced- sexual trauma

50%

of marriages end in divorce

30%

of unmarried people would prefer to remain single forever.

But here’s what the statistics don’t show -
the deeper crisis hiding beneath these numbers.

Most people "outgrow" their relationships because they never learned how to choose partners they could grow WITH. They settle for compatibility instead of seeking divine alignment. They focus on healing their wounds instead of transforming their entire being.

Have you tried therapy, meditation, workshops, and self-help books yet still feel disconnected from yourself, others, or the divine? It's exhausting to see the same relationship patterns repeat, leaving you wondering if real love and connection are even possible.

The relationship advice industry has it completely backward. Dating coaches focus on finding someone compatible. Therapists teach communication tools while ignoring energetic alignment. Spiritual communities promise that meditations, vision boards, or weeklong retreats will help you attract your soulmate.

But your capacity for divine connection - and divine relationships -exists on a completely different level.

Why Surface-Level Solutions Don't Work

You can attend every retreat, read every relationship book, and maintain an advanced spiritual practice... but still struggle with intimacy.

Because real transformation happens in three essential relationships that most people never learn to master:

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Your relationship with yourself -

becoming someone you genuinely love and respect

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Your relationship with others -

creating connections that reflect your highest truth

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Your relationship with the Divine -

building an unshakeable spiritual foundation

When these three relationships are aligned, everything changes. Love stops being something you seek and becomes something you ARE.

The Alchemical Solution:

From Lead to Gold

The Alchemy of Desire is the most comprehensive transformation program ever created - designed to give you 100% of everything you need to become an extraordinary person living an extraordinary life with extraordinary relationships.

This isn't 15 different programs cobbled together. This is one complete system that addresses every aspect of human transformation through the proven alchemical process that has guided spiritual masters for millennia.

Here's the truth:

After this, you should never need to buy another program like this again. Any future programs would simply be focused refinements - deeper intimacy through communication, advanced spiritual practices, etc. But the complete foundation for transformation?

It's all here.

Introducing The Alchemy of Desire

This is a cyclical program - designed to be experienced multiple times, with insights deepening each time you go through it.

What you're investing in isn't a one-time program, but a lifelong system for continuous growth and divine alignment.

From Lead to Gold:

Your Complete Transformation Journey.

This isn’t a scattered collection of ideas — it’s a step-by-step alchemical path. Each stage builds on the last, guiding you through the same process that has transformed ordinary lives into extraordinary ones for millennia.

MODULE 1:

The Great Work Begins

Discover timeless Hermetic principles, design supportive alliances, and begin embodying the person who naturally attracts llove, purpose and alignment.

MODULE 2:

Calcination:

The Breakdown Before the Breakthrough

Break free from the the victim cycle and face the fire that burns away illusion. Step from powerless to powerful, using hte Map of Consciousness as your roadmap to lasting freedom.

MODULE 3:

Dissolution:

Revealing, Releasing, Reclaiming

Release grief, fear, and anger without being trapped by them. Transform wounds into wisdom, integrate your shadow, and reclaim every part of yourself as fuel for wholeness.

MODULE 4:

Separation:

Choosing the True Self

Cut through illusion and separate truth from story. Dissolve, pride, embrace courage, and reclaim your authentic identity as you align with your divine self.

MODULE 5:

Conjunction:

The Alchemy of Love and Relationships

Discover the true alchemy of love. Create relationships that nuture growth, honor sacred connection, and expand beyond Hollywood fantasies into divine partnership.

MODULE 6:

Neutrality:

The Art of Casting No Shadow

Master the art of neutrality. Stop getting pulled into drama, dissolve judgement, and embody the calm presence that attracts health and repels toxicity.

MODULE 7:

Willingness:

From Openness to Action

Transform challenges into fuel. Move from openness to empowered commitment, live with integrity, and watch opportunities unfold everywhere you step.

MODULE 8:

Acceptance:

Embracing Reality and Heart-Centered Living

Stop resisting reality and embrace it fully. Discover the alchemy of acceptance and forgiveness as gateways to peace, power, and heart-centered living.

MODULE 9:

Devotion:

The Sacred Power that Anchors You

Unlock the hidden power of devotion. Align your daily choices with what truly matters, dissolve distractions, and anchor your life in sacred practices that keep you on track.

MODULE 10:

Fermentation:

Finding your Voice and Service

Speak your truth with clarity and power. Build meaningful connections, cultivate discernment, and align your service with the divine within supportive community.

MODULE 11:

Love:

Your Gateway to the Divine

Experience love as a divine force beyond emotion—a power that transforms everything. Embody love in every relationship and unite more deeply with the divine.

MODULE 12:

Purpose:

Live the Life You Love; Love the Life You Live

Awaken to your true purpose, cultivate relationships that amplify your impact, and embody the joy of your divine calling.

FINAL SESSION -

Putting It All Together:

You’ll learn how to keep growing and improving
long after the program ends.

This is your map.

From the first spark of self-mastery to the final integration of love and purpose, every step of this path is designed to bring you into alignment with your Highest Self, cultivate sacred relationships, and embody your divine calling.

Transformation Stories

*The following stories represent actual client transformations. Names and identifying details are left out to protect privacy.

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Finding Self-Worth Through True Partnership

A professional in the adult industry came to me believing her background made her unworthy of genuine love. She was convinced no one would ever see beyond her occupation to love her authentic self. Through our work together, she reconnected with her inherent worth and divine essence. She learned to release shame, establish healthy boundaries, and align with her desired relationships. Today, she’s in a committed relationship with a partner who honors her wholeheartedly, someone who sees and cherishes her true self beyond any labels or past experiences.

Breaking Toxic Patterns

Many clients came convinced they were destined to repeat the same harmful relationship patterns forever. Each new connection seemed to replay the same painful script. The Alchemy of Desire provided tools to identify these patterns, heal their underlying wounds, and align with healthier connections. They learned to set boundaries that honored their worth and choose partners who reflected their highest selves. These individuals now experience relationships characterized by mutual respect, care, and love—often after believing such connections were impossible.

Marriages Rebuilt From The Brink

I've guided numerous couples who had already consulted divorce attorneys and believed their relationships were beyond saving. They were trapped in cycles of miscommunication, resentment, and emotional distance. Using the principles now contained in The Alchemy of Desire, these couples learned to communicate authentically, rebuild trust, and reconnect with their initial love. Most importantly, they realigned their relationships with their spiritual values. These marriages didn't just survive—they transformed into something far more fulfilling than either partner thought possible, built on a foundation of mutual purpose and spiritual alignment.

Reclaiming Connection After Trauma

Survivors of trauma often struggle with physical and emotional intimacy. Many clients came to me disconnected from their bodies, unable to trust potential partners, and convinced that healing was impossible. Through this program's gentle yet powerful practices, they released the grip of past experiences, reconnected with their bodies, and discovered a newfound sense of safety in relationships. These individuals now experience healthy, loving connections and a renewed relationship with themselves, free from the shadows of their past.

Discovering Divine Connection

Some of the most profound transformations I've witnessed came from skeptics—people who doubted the existence of anything divine or spiritual. They came feeling empty and purposeless, seeking something they couldn't name. The practices in The Alchemy of Desire helped them experience the divine as an active, present force rather than an abstract concept. By discovering a personal connection to something greater, they now approach life with purpose and guidance, experiencing the divine in all their relationships.

From Emptiness To Purpose

Outward success doesn't guarantee fulfillment. I've worked with high-profile individuals who seemed to "have it all" yet felt profoundly empty in their relationships and personal lives. They discovered what mattered beyond surface achievements by reconnecting them with their core values and divine purpose. They built meaningful relationships that reflected their authentic selves rather than public personas. These individuals now lead lives of genuine purpose and connection, transforming their definition of success into spiritual alignment and authentic relationships.

Aligning Spirituality & Principles

Spiritual practitioners often struggle with integrating their spiritual beliefs with their relationships and sexuality. Many feel ashamed of their desires or believe their spiritual path requires denying this aspect of themselves. They learn to embrace their full humanity as divine and sacred through compassionate guidance. Rather than compartmentalizing their spirituality and relationships, they discover how to bring these aspects into harmony. These individuals now experience profound alignment between their spiritual practice and relationships, living as integrated, whole beings.

About Your Instructor:

A Journey from Darkness to Divine Light

Hi! I'm Don Hamm. I know firsthand what it's like to try everything and still feel broken. After spending over $300,000 on therapy, medications, silent retreats, and spiritual practices, I found myself at rock bottom.

It took two near-death experiences to show me what was missing: alignment between my relationships and my divine purpose.

Having lived through abuse, heartbreak, and the kind of pain that made love feel like a myth created to sell greeting cards, I bring a different perspective to relationship healing.

I don't offer spiritual bypassing or quick fixes. I provide practical, tested methods that address the root causes of relationship pain. My work bridges the gap most spiritual teachings miss—the profound connection between your divine nature and your capacity for relationships.

For the past decade, I’ve guided people through the same alchemical process that saved my life. My clients often tell me my approach was the missing piece that finally made sense of years of spiritual work.

Choose the Right Option for You

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Founders Package

Be one of the first 100 to join and lock in lifetime access

What You Get:

  • The full Alchemy of Desire course
    (13 modules, 95 lessons, 20+ hours of training, 500+ workbook pages)
  • Guided meditations, journaling prompts
  • Downloadable PDFs + audio for every lesson
  • Lifetime access to the course and all future updates
  • Lifetime access to the community, including:
    • Monthly live talk/Q&A (+ full archive of recordings)
    • Discussion forums for Q&A, support, and peer connection
  • Exclusive recognition: Founders badge, event shout-outs, special offers

You’ll be recognized as one of the originals — the inner circle that seeded the movement. Once these 100 spots are gone, they’re gone forever.

Investment:

$1,497 3 payments of $599

Standard Package

The complete transformation journey at your own pace.

What You Get:

  • The full The Alchemy of Desire course
    (all modules, lessons, and workbooks)
  • Guided meditations, journaling prompts, and downloads
  • Lifetime access to the course materials
  • 12 months in the private community (renew after at $97/month or $997/year)
  • Certificate of completion

Completion Rewards:

  • Discounted community renewal
    ($47/month or $497/year if completed within 12 months)
  • Quarterly “graduates-only” Q&A call
  • Priority access for future Mastermind or 1:1 spots

This is the foundation. If you want the full system for self-mastery and aligned relationships, this is it.

Investment:

$1,997 3 payments of $799

Mastermind Accelerator

A 14-week intensive for those ready to be seen, supported, and stretched.

What You Get:

  • Everything in the Standard Package
  • 14 weeks of live small-group coaching (max 12 participants)
  • Weekly live calls (recordings included)
  • Direct access to Don + team via DM/email during the program
  • Exclusive mastermind space
  • Extended 12 months community access (discount renewal: $47/month or $497/year)
  • Advanced certificate of mastery
  • Special touches: 1:1 onboarding call + 1:1 exit call

For those who want accountability, intimate connection, and direct coaching. Small, capped groups ensure you get personal attention and lasting relationships.

Investment:

$3,497 3 payments of $799

7-day satisfaction guarantee from program start. After that, all sales are final.

Transformation Coaching

Work directly with Don in private mentorship for accelerated transformation.

Choose Your Transformation Timeline:

3-Month Intensive

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  • 12 private 90-minute calls (1/week)
  • Personalized guidance through core modules
  • Email/DM access between calls
  • Immediate start - no waiting for cohorts

6-Month Deep Dive

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  • 24 private 90-minute calls (1/week)
  • Complete curriculum with integration time
  • Priority email/DM access
  • VIP community access

12-Month Mastery

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  • 36 private 90-minute calls (3/month)
  • Full transformation journey + integration
  • Priority access to Don between calls
  • Lifetime VIP community access
  • VIP priority at events and retreats
  • Exclusive VIP-only circle access

Packages include:

  • Personalized transformation roadmap
  • Custom assignments and practices
  • Direct access to Don's guidance
  • Flexible scheduling around your life

Available as add-on: Join any Mastermind cohort during your coaching period for additional group energy and accountability.

Limited to 5 clients total across all packages.

Enrollment by application only - Book a Call to explore fit.

Scholarship Access – Free (by application only)

For those committed to transformation but limited by finances.

What You Get:

  • Full Standard Package access
    (course, meditations, workbooks)
  • 12 months of community access
  • Certificate of completion
Enrollment by application + Book a Call to explore fit.

FAQs

How much of a commitment is required?

The Alchemy of Desire is designed to fit into your life, not disrupt it. Many participants see meaningful results with 15-30 minutes of daily practice. Ask yourself: How much time do you spend feeling disconnected or trying to make unsatisfactory relationships work? The time you invest now—even if limited—can create a lifetime of alignment and fulfillment. The program is self-paced; you'll have lifetime access to the materials whenever works best for you.

How is this different from other relationship or spiritual programs I've tried?

Unlike most programs focusing on communication techniques, manifestation practices, or spiritual bypassing, The Alchemy of Desire integrates mind, body, soul, and relationships into a unified framework. This course addresses the deeper spiritual and emotional misalignments that other approaches often miss. It doesn't just manage relationship problems—it transforms them through the alchemical process that Don Hamm discovered through his journey of healing and alignment.

How do I know this will work for me specifically?

The Alchemy of Desire is designed to meet you exactly where you are in your journey. The framework has helped people from all backgrounds—from those healing from trauma to spiritual seekers to those in long-term relationships. The principles work because they address universal human needs for alignment, connection, and purpose. The course has a 30-day satisfaction guarantee, so you can experience it risk-free and see the results yourself.

Will I see results if I make this investment?

Consider how much you've invested financially and emotionally in solutions that didn't bring lasting fulfillment. Don spent over $300,000 and 20 years piecing together the insights and tools contained in this course. The value becomes apparent when viewed as an investment in your lifelong happiness and relationships that align with your highest purpose. Many participants report that the transformation they experience is priceless compared to the years of struggle before finding this approach.

The approach sounds unconventional. Is this too 'out there' for me?

The most potent transformations often come from approaches that initially feel outside our comfort zone. While The Alchemy of Desire integrates spiritual principles with practical relationship tools, it's grounded in real-life application rather than abstract theory. You don't need to believe everything on day one—just come with an open mind and let the results speak for themselves. The course meets you where you are, whether deeply spiritual or beginning to explore these concepts.

Do I need to be in a relationship to benefit from this course?

No. Many people find the course most valuable when they're single, as it helps them develop a strong relationship with themselves first—the foundation for all other connections. Whether you're single, dating, committed, or recovering from a breakup, The Alchemy of Desire will help you align your relationships with your highest purpose. The first module focuses specifically on your relationship with yourself, which is essential regardless of your relationship status.

How long does it take to see results?

While everyone's journey is unique, many participants report experiencing meaningful shifts within the first few weeks of practice. The entire program guides you through a comprehensive transformation process, but you don't have to wait until the end to start seeing benefits. Small, consistent steps create powerful momentum. Remember: this work isn't just about quick fixes—it's about creating lasting alignment that continues to deepen over time.

Is this course religious? I don’t know if my spiritual beliefs align with this approach.

The Alchemy of Desire isn't tied to any specific religion. While it addresses your relationship with the divine, this is defined according to your understanding and beliefs. The principles work whether you belong to an established faith tradition, consider yourself spiritual but not religious, or are just beginning to explore these concepts. The course focuses on alignment rather than dogma, meeting you wherever you are on your spiritual journey.

Your Moment of Truth

You didn't find this program by accident. Something in you knows you're ready for more than surface-level healing. You're ready for a complete transformation.
The question isn't whether this works - it's whether you're ready to do the work.

If you're tired of:

  • Relationships that drain more than they give

  • Feeling disconnected from yourself and the divine

  • Playing small when you know you're meant for more

  • Settling for "good enough" when you know extraordinary is possible

If you're ready for:

  • Complete alignment between your inner truth and outer life

  • Relationships that grow WITH you instead of ones you outgrow

  • An unshakeable connection to the divine

  • The confidence that comes from knowing exactly who you are and what you're here to do

This Is Your Moment

The alchemical fire is calling.
Will you step in willingly and transform everything...
or wait for life to force the change upon you?

Because you weren't born to live an ordinary life.
You were born to become gold.